I was married with 2 kids when I realized I'm gay (opinion) - CNN - Married women who discovered they were gay
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'Did I ever really know him?': the women who married gay men “Some women found out because they were diagnosed with HIV or another. Two young women hold rainbow flags in support of same sex . The views expressed in this commentary are her own. I was married to my best friend and we had two beautiful, healthy and I had just seen Kate McKinnon perform the song "Hallelujah" on SNL and discovered that she's a lesbian.